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Honest thoughts after the call

So after five (5) months, I decided to join a virtual call for an e-game with my previous batchmates at work. The invitation included my batchmate to whom we just ended a more than one (1) year we-are-together-but-not-quite-really. Well, to put it simply, M.U.. Why weren't we together? He didn't pop up the question of being a 'girlfriend'.  I have been a fan of 'we're never talking again after the relationship' so I've refused some invitations once confirmed he is part of the call. It was really difficult for me to say 'yes' to that call, because that would mean cutting my 7 year tradition of not talking to ex-boyfriends (well, he isn't technically an ex-bf tho). Anws, I said 'yes' because I don't want to lose my connection with my friends just because of one (1) person. Back story again. He was my workmate before, so I had the chance to hear his voice after the "break up" and before he left the firm. I cried a lot after...